In the complex world of family law, attorneys often deal with disputes between separated or divorced parents involving the upbringing of their children. Calls from clients facing urgent conflicts are common, and these situations often seem to reach a crisis point at the least convenient time. In many cases, there may not be enough time to bring the issue before a judge. What options are available in these situations? One potentially helpful resource is a parenting coordinator.
What Is a Parenting Coordinator?
A parenting coordinator is a trained professional who can play an important role in helping separated or divorced parents manage conflict. Depending on the jurisdiction and the authority granted to the professional, a parenting coordinator may facilitate effective communication between parents, help them resolve disagreements regarding their children, and assist with implementing an existing parenting plan.
The precise role and authority of a parenting coordinator vary according to state law and the applicable court order.
Requirements for a Parenting Coordinator
The qualifications required to serve as a parenting coordinator vary by jurisdiction but may include:
- Education or professional experience in mental health, family law, family mediation, or another relevant field.
- Experience working with families in similar circumstances, including separated parents and co-parenting relationships.
- Knowledge of family law and the legal system.
- Conflict-resolution and mediation skills that can help parents work toward solutions focused on their children’s best interests.
When a Parenting Coordinator May Be Helpful
A parenting coordinator may be beneficial in several circumstances:
- When parents have difficulty making joint decisions about their children.
- In high-conflict co-parenting situations.
- When parents have difficulty following or implementing a parenting plan.
- When significantly different parenting styles repeatedly create conflict.
- When a child has special needs requiring additional coordination between parents.
Situations Where a Parenting Coordinator May Not Be Appropriate
There are also circumstances in which parenting coordination may not be appropriate or may require additional safeguards, including:
- Cases involving domestic violence or abuse.
- Situations involving substance abuse by one or both parents.
- Cases involving serious untreated mental health concerns that may affect the safety or effectiveness of the process.
The appropriateness of parenting coordination in these circumstances depends on the facts of the case and applicable law.
Considerations When Selecting a Parenting Coordinator
When selecting a parenting coordinator, several factors should be considered:
- The professional’s experience and qualifications relevant to the family’s particular circumstances.
- The parenting coordinator’s availability.
- Clear expectations regarding fees, scheduling, communication, and the scope of services.
Delegation of Authority
The authority granted to a parenting coordinator depends on applicable law and, when court-appointed, the terms of the court order. It is important that everyone involved clearly understands the scope and limitations of that authority to avoid additional disputes.
A parenting coordinator can be a valuable resource for resolving or managing disputes in certain family law cases. Selecting the appropriate professional and clearly defining their role should be based on the unique needs of each family. With appropriate support, parents may be able to communicate and work together more effectively for the benefit of their children, helping create a healthier and more stable co-parenting environment after separation or divorce.
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If you are dealing with a difficult co-parenting or child custody situation and need legal guidance, Albizu Law is here to help. Our team can explain your options and help you determine an appropriate path forward.
Call 512-861-5638 to schedule a consultation and discuss your specific circumstances. We are committed to helping you pursue solutions that protect your interests and support your children’s well-being.
